I have a lot of inertia and tend to stay in one place for long periods of time. This is especially true for homes. I’ve only moved about six times in my life and have only lived outside the San Jose area for one year and for nearly six decades I’ve lived within 4 miles of where I was born.
Just a century ago this would have been normal, but these days it isn’t.
I just get comfortable in a place and tend to just make the best of whatever is around me. My father was like that, but my mother wasn’t. Mother had a wanderlust that was seemingly insatiable and if she wasn’t traveling, she was planning her next trip.
Now at 60 and newly retired I find myself living far from where born. My life packed into boxes and deposited in the garage of the new house. It’s a different state, a different city – a different place far from my known world.
But yet there are still many familiar things here. There’s a grocery store, a garden center, a coffee place, a gas station, the annoying neighbor, the helpful neighbor, and one who’s a little of both.
I’ve often wondered what the word ‘home’ really means. In times of stress, I’ve been known to say, “I just want to go home.” When you say that in your own house, things might not be going as well as you’d like.
There are a number of phrases and idioms that attempt to define home:
- Home is where you hang your hat
- Home is where your heart is
- Home is where you story begins
- Home is where you place your @ (for you computer nerds)
Home could be that place where you find comfort and rest or it could be a place where your story starts.
That place where the adventure begins.
and a few pictures of Reno from the park behind our neighborhood:

Looking towards Reno airport. My house is somewhere on the left.

From a different angle. You can’t see my house in this picture.

Reno at night.
Onward to a new adventure! (Lovely pics.)
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We having an adventure!
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What a shake up this must have been! I wonder if this beautiful new place has begun to feel like home when that thought comes (I just want to go home)?
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It was a shake up.
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Beautiful photos! I hope your new home soon feels like home. It’s funny, but I’ve often thought the same thing in times of stress: “I just want to go home.” It’s not a place so much as a state of mind…
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It really is a state of mind.
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We wish you both the very best and I am sure you will enjoy the next stage in life. I have also read home is a place where we can move about in the dark 🙂 Regards
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We’re enjoying it!
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Being a stranger in a strange land is a bit surreal isn’t it? It’s the excitement of a new adventure tinged with a bit of sadness for what was left behind. But it sounds like you are settling in! Now go unpack some of those boxes! And make something out of wood!
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I need to unpack my shop tools to make anything. 😉
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It will feel more like home when you do!
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The area looks nice.
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We love it.
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After years of moving around all over the country, I finally got to move “home” (the area where I grew up) over 20 years ago and I’ve been here ever since. Hope you settle in nicely in your new home – it looks great from the photos!
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It’s a great area and we feel fortunate to have been able to move here.
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Grest photos….much happiness in your new “home”
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We are liking it here.
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This will be a good change of scenery for you Andrew. I predict the desert landscape will provide the right inspiration for your poetry. 🙂
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I’ve always like the desert and it’s rugged beauty. I’m hoping it will inspire.
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I love the photos! Looks like a beautiful area. I don’t think you’ll regret moving closer to family.
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We are enjoying being near family.
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I love to see you settling in, Andrew. I haven’t moved in 35 years. But I’m getting close.
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It’s an adventure – start getting rid of your unwanted junk now.
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Beautiful photos!
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It’s even better to see in person.
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The landscape is beautiful!
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It is – the mountains are something to see.
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My grandad lived within five miles of where he was born all his life,except for three years fighting the Germans in WW1 and five or six years in eastern Canada working for CPR. My dad lived within two miles of where he was born all his life,except for six years fighting the Germans in WW2. I have moved forty miles to Nottingham and stayed there. I have liked all the Germans I have met so far.
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I never thought I’d move, but here I am.
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“Home is where when you go there they have to take you in.”
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That’s a good one.
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